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Reclaiming Your Mind: Overcoming the Mental Impact of Chronic Illness

  Reclaiming Your Mind: Overcoming the Mental Impact of Chronic Illness Picture this : I’m sitting on the couch, staring blankly at a cup of tea I can’t even muster the energy to drink. The person I used to be—the Tammy who could juggle a million tasks and still have time for a spontaneous lunch with a friend—felt like a ghost. Chronic illness had stolen my energy, my confidence, and, frankly, my sense of purpose. I remember thinking, What’s the point of all this? Who am I if I can’t do the things that used to make me… me? Sound familiar? If you’ve ever found yourself asking the same questions, you’re not alone. Chronic illness doesn’t just take a toll on your body; it sets up camp in your mind and starts whispering things like, “This is who you are now. Get used to it.” But I’m here to tell you: that voice is lying. Let’s dig into the messy reality of how chronic illness impacts your mind, the everyday struggles it creates, and how you can start fighting back to reclaim your se...
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Reclaiming Joy in a Life Changed by Chronic Illness

  Reclaiming Joy in a Life Changed by Chronic Illness Introduction There’s a moment, or maybe it’s a series of moments, when life as you knew it starts to shift, slowly or suddenly, into something unrecognizable. For many women living with chronic illness, that moment marks the beginning of a new reality—one where daily life is shaped not only by plans and dreams, but by limitations and the unexpected weight of uncertainty. It’s a life you didn’t choose, but one you’ve had to adapt to, sometimes in ways that feel like letting go of who you once were. And yet, even within this changed life, there’s space to reclaim joy and find beauty again. It may not look the same as it did before—often, it’s smaller, quieter, and wrapped in simplicity—but it’s there, waiting to be noticed. The challenge lies in learning how to recognize it amidst the chaos, how to redefine what joy looks like for you now, and how to embrace a new kind of beauty that emerges from a life transformed by illness. ...

Beyond the Invisible Veil: Unveiling the Truth of Living with Chronic Illness

Beyond the Invisible Veil: Unveiling the Truth of Living with Chronic Illness There are moments in life that change everything—moments that redefine who we are and how we see the world. For me, that moment came not with a bang, but with a relentless whisper—a constant, nagging pain that refused to leave. It was the beginning of a journey I never asked for, a path shrouded in invisibility and misunderstanding. My name is Tammy Collins , and I want to share a piece of my heart with you. At the age of 40, I stood on the path of a new beginning. I found love and married for the first time, embracing the chaos and joy of becoming a wife and a mother a 8 months later to a precious baby boy! His laughter echoed through our home, his passion for Barney, the purple dinosaur was obnoxious but sweet with a constant background melody with all the singing. My husband was the love of my life and—whose ability to test my patience was matched only by his capacity to make me smile—I felt like life was ...

Reclaiming Life from Chronic Illness: A Journey to Rediscover Strength and Joy

Hello, and welcome. I’m Tammy Kinchen Collins , and if you’ve found your way here, it’s likely because you’re living with chronic illness. You might be feeling weighed down by pain, by fatigue that never seems to lift, or by a sense of loss so deep it’s hard to put into words. Perhaps you feel like your life has been slipping away, piece by piece, and the dreams you once held dear feel like distant memories. I understand, because I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to feel as if you’re losing everything—not just your health, but your strength, your job, your sense of self, and your hope. But here’s the thing: you are not alone. And more importantly, you are not beyond reclaiming what chronic illness has tried to take from you. Together, we can find a way to rediscover purpose, joy, and even hope. Living with Chronic Illness: The Losses We Never Talk About There’s a kind of silence that comes with chronic illness—a silence about the losses we face beyond the obvious. It’s not jus...